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How to heal from infidelity

Most relationships can survive infidelity

Remainly guides you, step by step, so that you can heal the wounds and find your way back to each other again.

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How to heal from infidelity

The emotional damage caused by an affair is painful and the weeks after the discovery are often uncertain as partners try to figure out how to proceed. Many people may feel that their relationship might be over, but this doesn't have to be the case.

If both partners are committed to repairing the damage and rebuilding trust, it is possible to heal the wounds. Couples who survive an affair often say that their relationship is stronger as a result of the time and effort they have invested.

You will be guided through a step-by-step program, designed by our certified psychologist and experienced couples therapist.

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Video - How to get over infidelity

To act quickly is important

If an affair is discovered, it's important to act quickly in order to avoid greater harm. You're at risk of doing rash things that will harm you both more than necessary.

As a therapist, I have worked with many couples who were in pain because of an affair. Nevertheless, – a lot of those couples are still together, and many even say that they have a better relationship now. Many years of experience has taught me what most couples have to do in order to rebuild trust and regain normality.

I will guide you through the whole process. This is how it works: First, you watch a video where I tell you what to talk about. Then, you find the time to talk about the topics I introduce.

You get help at once, and you don’t have to find the time to meet with a couples therapist outside of your home. Be assured that Remainly does not take sides, but is a neutral advisor. With us, both of you will get the tools and space you need to work your way through the crisis.

It takes time and effort to emerge from a crisis but it is possible. I know of many couples who have conquered difficulties because they both invested the work necessary to rebuild trust. And the cost of a painful break-up is usually much, much greater, both financially and emotionally.

If you're in a crisis caused by an affair, get help here and now. Most couples need externa assistant for how to get over infidelity.

Remainly can help you to get over infidelity

We know that dealing with an affair takes time and it is important to work at a pace that suits you. With Remainly, there are no time restrictions or appointments and you can watch the videos where you wish.


Most relationships can survive an affair. If you are both willing to commit and invest, Remainly can help you and your partner to heal and reconnect.

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